Rewire Your Brain

For some who have grown an addictive dependency upon porn, it is a sexual partner, but a toxic one. It's a partner that tells you your worthless, doing things wrong, takes your energy, depresses you, lowers your self esteem, confidence, energy, prevents you from meeting those that would truly love you properly as a sexual partner, lies to you about the reality of the sexual world and lust, and takes your willpower. My advice here is to not be afraid to abandon that partner. Try it. Just one time. Allow yourself to masturbate just one time without the use of that partner. Do not allow that partner to creep into your mind, causing you to believe you need it in that moment.

Allow your body to feel those euphoric feelings without porn there. I promise you, you do not need porn there. Simply use the power of imagination. Allow yourself to feel, and to truly feel. Do not be sucked into the presence of pornography, warping your mind and what is real. It may be hard, but if you can do it this one time, I believe it will be a powerful moment. You will see that you haven't missed out on anything. Life goes on, and you'll still feel good. It's just that that toxic entity wasn't a part of it, and you'll see that that's okay. Once you've done it once, do it twice. Work your way into it. Build this habit as you've built the habit of using pornography.

You do not need porn. Even when every fiber of your being is telling you that you do, I believe releasing and finishing without it is one key way of slowly teaching your body that it in fact does not need it. Then, when you're ready, meet an actual partner. Allow them to be the one that gives you those feelings, but healthily. It may feel scary, or that you're wasting a chance to finish with porn one last time, but I promise that's okay. You don't need it. You'll be okay. This is the true way to masturbate and to release. Porn is a pack of falsehoods, disguised with "feel good" energies with adverse effects. It is stimulating, but it is a curse. The true way of masturbation and/or finishing is with a partner and/or your own thoughts. Rewire your brain.